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The Wise Choice Checklist: 7 Principles for Taking Charge of Your Life (God’s Way)
Are you tired of feeling like life is happening TO you instead of THROUGH you? This free download gives you seven simple, biblical checkpoints to help you make daily decisions that actually move you toward the abundant, joyful life God has for you. Included is a lovely printable to stick on your fridge (next to the grocery list you wrote but forgot to bring to the store) so you can remember on the regular how you're in the business of shaping your soul, not just surviving another day.
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Here’s how we’re gonna do it
FOR READERS AND LISTENERS
Books, Blog, and Podcasts
Sometimes we need a friend to tell us we're not crazy. Or at least that we're not alone, when we stash the keys in the fridge and the milk in the dishwasher. Whether you're in zombie mode from raising tiny humans or tempted to set your husband's hunting gear on fire because menopause, hello... I've got a book, a blog post, or a podcast episode for you. Writing and encouraging are two of my favorite life pursuits. It's real talk for real women who want their crazy to actually count for something.
FOR EVENT COORDINATORS
Speaking & Teaching
Your audience needs someone who'll tell it like it is—with compassion and solidarity, but also with zero sugarcoating. I show up to retreats and conferences ready to talk about the stuff that actually matters: how to love people who drive you nuts, why your daily choices are basically writing your obituary (in a good way), and how to raise kids in a world that's lost its ever-loving mind. Think coffee date with your most honest friend, except she quotes Scripture and makes you laugh 'til you snort.
FOR WRITERS AND CREATORS
Business Coaching
That book idea bouncing around your head? The one you think about while waiting in the Starbucks drive-thru for the 47th time this week? It's time to stop treating it like a nice little hobby and start turning it into something real. AuthorRise Academy (launching October 2025) is where we take your "someday I'll write a book" and turn it into "gahhh, people are actually buying my book." Because the world needs your story, and you need to make enough money to pay for all those Venti lattes.
WELCOME, FRIENDS!
I’m Becky Kopitzke
Author, Speaker & Biz Coach
I'm a traditionally published author, podcast host, and reformed people pleaser who's been writing about real life since the golden age of mom blogs. After four books, a decade of figuring out how to make words pay the bills, and way too many late nights wondering if I'm doing this whole life thing right, I've learned something important: legacy is a lot less about what you do than what you choose NOT to do.
Now I help women listen to God's calling and craft lives that actually matter—whether that's loving the people God gave you, pursuing scary dreams, or just figuring out who you are when your biggest job (mom) starts changing. Your story matters. How you live day in and day out matters. Let's stick together to build up treasures that last, in this world and the next.
LET'S GET YOU LISTENING
My Podcasts
5-MINUTE AUDIO DEVOS
Make It Matter with Becky Kopitzke
For women on the go, this podcast delivers weekly short devotions to tune your heart into God's call on your life, plus occasional interviews with inspiring women who are making a real difference in this world. Watch for the first episodes to drop in fall 2025!
FOR NEXT-LEVEL MOMS LIKE ME
The Girlfriend’s Guide to an Empty Nest
If empty nesting feels harder than anyone warned you it would, here's your safe place. My co-host Anne Watson and I talk through the real stuff—the grief, the marriage adjustments, the "who am I now?" questions, and how to actually enjoy this new chapter. Laughter included!
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My Most Popular Blog Posts
DROP IT AND DO IT
We're all busy, we have to-do lists. But sometimes the good life means tossing tasks aside. Here's the rule that changed how I build my relationship with my growing kids.
How to Change Your Attitude With a Single Text
Grumpy? Angry? Blaming everybody else for your grievances? Here's the mind shift that will change the way you look at your circumstances in a flash - and regain a sense of gratitude.
Good vs. best: Which to Choose?
It's easy to choose whatever is temporarily good vs. that which is lastingly good. Here's a peek into what that looks like on a daily basis, and why we ought to make the better choice.
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